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Featured Writer:  Karis Armstrong

        "Freely you have received, freely give."  Matthew 10:8
Serendipity - the phenomenon of finding … agreeable things not sought for

Has anyone ever reached out to you … unexpectedly … perhaps even undeservedly … and lifted your spirits for a moment … or a lifetime?  Have you ever found a delightful surprise that’s just for you … but you have no idea who gave it … or why?

I’ve spent the better part of my lifetime battling depression.  It wasn’t actually diagnosed until about 2 years ago.  I can look back over my 41 years, though, and see periods where it was severe … and times when it was not … but it’s been there a very long time.

I mention this only because, before I was diagnosed, I can remember having days feeling lost and alone … even in the midst of friends.  At times, I can remember being told that if I would stop focusing on myself and turn my focus on others, things would get better.

I really had no idea how to do that! My self-esteem was very low.  I had friends, but I didn’t really believe anyone wanted to be my friend.  (You know … it takes one to be one!)  I tried, however, to begin to focus on others … to reach outside of myself.  I started doing things for others without them knowing it was me who did them.  For me, it was easier to do things anonymously and, for the recipient it was … SERENDIPITY!

I began paying more attention to things people said … and the things they didn’t say … the sadness in their eyes … or something someone would mention about things happening in their life.

I started dropping funny little things in their mailboxes or by their front door … just little things to brighten their day.  Don’t you love a little surprise?  Sometimes I would attach a Bible verse or just a silly little saying.

I have had friends tell me that there is NO way I would have known that the day they received a little gift was a day when they so needed something uplifting.  And often I really didn’t know … I believe I was inspired by the Holy Spirit to reach out in that unique way at that very specific time.

So … let me share just a few things I’ve given:

* A shiny gold (antique-looking) skeleton key with this Bible verse:"I will give you the keys of the kingdom of heaven" … Matthew 16:19
* A small pumpkin in the early fall with “Happy Fall” written on it
* A box of “eye-opener” mints at the beginning of school … for moms who had to start getting up early!
* A drain cover on the last day of summer break … “another summer down the drain!”
* A votive candle with this Bible verse: "May the light of Jesus’ love burn brightly in your heart this Christmas … and always …"
* A little angel with this “name tag” and Bible verse:  “Grace”  Grace be with you … I Timothy 6:21
* A little card with a penny:  You’re Heaven Cent!
* A disposable camera:  Have a “picture perfect” summer 
(or vacation or …)!

Seems silly, huh?

Try it!  It might be serendipity for you, too!  It’s a wonderful feeling to brighten someone’s day!

His and yours … always …
Karis

"Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights."  James 1:17


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